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It’s as easy as 1, 2, 3!

Just go to the join page and follow the simple instructions.

Once you’re accepted as a member you can begin to attend the events! Simply RSVP as outlined in the event posting.

I’ll book you in and send a confirmation email with the address, directions, rules, contact number, parking information, dress code, what to bring & when to arrive.

**APPLICATIONS ARE NOW BEING ACCEPTED**

Currently offering Meet & Greets and organizing Private Parties, Kat is an adult lifestyle event organizer with 20 years of experience welcoming open-minded & adventurous couples & ladies 19+ & SELECT SINGLE MEN * 19 – 60 to her no-pressure events. Young-looking and acting men over the age of 60 are most welcome to apply!

*Single men: I only accept those that are the VERY BEST FIT FOR THE GROUP.  Please read the MEN JOIN page for the type of men I seek. Thank you for your understanding!

PROCESS FOR SINGLE MALE MEMBERS

The future Kat’s Community website and my event company Everything but Vanilla Events will represent my dedication to my members and the lifestyle community by providing the best possible experience for all members and guests by conducting in-person interviews with all single gentlemen.

No other local lifestyle website or event offers this unique and valued level of customer service which is appreciated by not only the couples and ladies but by the quality single men too!

All single men must attend an interview with me. This interview is an informal get-to-know-each-other chat & information session.

Interviews are for current members or those that submit an application and are invited by me to take the next step and book an interview.

INTERVIEW FEES:

Online Facetime: $60 pre-paid

In-person: $80 cash or e-transfer at start of appointment

Guys!! If you’d like to attend a meet & greet or possibly get invites to private parties with sexxxy couples, now is the time to act!!

Male non-members should submit an application FIRST as outlined HERE and ACCEPTED MEN / CURRENT MEMBERS can visit the website below to book your interview.

www.meetwithkat.com

DO NOT BOOK AN INTERVIEW WITHOUT AN INVITATION FROM ME TO DO SO. THANK YOU!

All Event Themes ~

Meet & Greets – Socialize with interesting new friends as well as your favourite familiar faces. The perfect event for those new to the lifestyle, as well as the more experienced. Laugh, chat, flirt, connect, exchange contact details and maybe even continue the party with your new friends elsewhere after the event! Meet sexy people that may not attend the actual play parties. Want to expand your sexy social circle? Then I highly recommend attending a meet & greet! Attendees are having a blast! Held in two different themes ~ Greedy Girl welcoming select single men & Couples & Ladies Only (no single men in attendance). Currently offering in New West, Langley & Surrey with future plans for Abbotsford & Richmond!

Private Parties – Full Details Below!

Greedy Girl Event © – (ON HOLD) Our signature event! Multiple men for the ladies with a 2:1 male to female ratio or higher. Ratio is usually 2:1, on rare occasions up to 2.5:1. Our classy well organized Greedy Girl nights are for ladies & couples who truly love the multiple men experience and the men who want to be part of pleasuring a woman beyond her wildest dreams! First-timers & experienced welcome. There is never any pressure to participate and NO MEANS NO. Guests play if, when & however they choose. Ladies can pick & choose their ‘dream team’ and enjoy a private room or the most adventurous can rock the open room. This amorous affair is best suited to those who appreciate extra single men mixing & mingling with lots of couples & straight and bi single ladies.

The donation is as follows: Couples $80, Single Ladies $40 & Select Single Men $80.

GBX – The GBXperience © – (ON HOLD) a professionally organized gang bang held in a safe & controlled environment. Three to six ladies per event handpick their dream team by handing out coloured wristbands. Single men are invited accordingly based on the number & type of men the ladies seek. Ladies must be willing to submit a sexxxy body shot (no face) to be shared on the website and in the weekly newsletter, along with a few details such as the type of men they seek and how many. This event is specifically geared to women that are goers, want to entertain a minimum of 4-5 men or more and are ready to rock it and men that can perform with ease in a group situation and are eager to be an integral part of this mind-blowing experience. Up to a 4:1 male-to-female ratio, or greater, can be expected, based on the number of men the ladies want. All attending men have been vetted. If a gentleman doesn’t receive a wristband during the mix & mingle time, he is welcome to stay & watch at a respectable distance or leave before the designated cut-off time and get a refund (minus a $20 admin fee).

The donation is as follows: Couples $140 & Single Ladies $60. A 50%  non-refundable deposit is required to get on the guest list.

Attending men vetted by myself donate as follows: Single Men $100. A $40 non-refundable deposit is required to get on the guest list.

To create a GBX I need a minimum of 2-4 ladies/couples to commit by advance donation to any given night and then I’ll start to promote it. If you are a couple or a lady that would like to attend a GBX please OPT IN to the GBX mailing list. Single men, please watch the EVENTS PAGE and weekly newsletter for a GBX to be listed then RSVP if you fit the criteria the ladies seek and would like to join us.

Couples & Ladies Only – (ON HOLD) Our one & only event where you won’t find any single men in attendance!  First-timers & experienced welcome. There is never any pressure to participate and NO MEANS NO. Go at your own pace! This event welcomes dedicated couples, single playmates attending as a couple under our ‘stay together, play together rule’ and single ladies only!!

The donation is as follows: Couples $80 & Single Ladies $40.

Bi Nights – (ON HOLD) Welcoming bi and/or bi-curious men, women and couples. Bi-friendly partners welcome. Feel the freedom as we welcome bi play between men in the orgy room for this theme which is not the norm at any of our other events. A 2:1 – 3:1 male to female ratio or higher can be expected as the focus tends to be more on the men but we always have ladies in attendance.

The donation is as follows: Couples $80, Single Ladies $40 & Select Single Men $100.

Cougars & Cubs Party © – (ON HOLD) This special event theme is for single ladies aged 40+, single men aged 19 – 40 and couples where the lady is 40+ and the man is any age over 19. All guests must meet age requirements.

The donation is as follows: Couples $80, Single Ladies $40 & Select Single Men $100.

Whether you have a preference for straight or bi couples, a unicorn (single bi lady), bi guys, young guys (cubs), cougars, one guy, five guys, a gang bang or a group sex scene…

…Kat’s is the place to be!!

PRIVATE PARTIES ~ YOU HOST ~ THREE DIFFERENT TYPES TO CHOOSE FROM!

To read private party testimonials scroll to the bottom of this page. 

OPTION #1 –  Private Party for a Couple or Single Lady Seeking Single Men – 2 or more Guests

OPTION #2 – Private Party for a Couple, Single Lady or Single Man Seeking Couples and Single Men (*Possibly Single Ladies) – 4 to 19 Guests

OPTION #3 – The Ultimate Private Party for a Couple, Single Lady or Single Man Seeking Couples and Single Men (*Possibly Single Ladies) – 20 or More Guests

NOTE: I only organize safe sex events.

SPRING SALE! 

OPTION #1 – Private Party for a Couple or Single Lady Seeking Single Men – You Host

THIS PRIVATE PARTY IS STRICTLY FOR ONE COUPLE OR 1-2 SINGLE LADIES WELCOMING STRAIGHT MEN FOR STRAIGHT PLAY OR A BI COUPLE CAN INVITE BI MEN FOR A BI THEMED FANTASY NIGHT.

You submit the questionnaire along with a saucy or nice photo of the lady which is used to promote the party.  A face photo does NOT need to be shown however most ladies share a face photo with men they’ve said ‘yes’ to.

I organize the guests based on the type & number of men you want; however the minimum number  is 2.

Private parties are for couples or ladies seeking a minimum of 2 men to help ensure that at least 1 gentleman will be a good fit/attend when event night arrives.

I send you photos of applicants and you’re in complete control of who attends by saying ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Upon meeting at the venue all parties still have the right to say ‘no thank you’.

You can hold it in the suburb of your choice, in the venue of your choice (Airbnb, hotel room, suite, your home etc.,) and the gathering can go as long as you please plus you can spend the night (avoid a drive home after the fun) and can even opt to welcome any guests you choose to stay the night too.

I DO NOT attend this event unless it’s for a single lady. For security purposes I will need to be in attendance at any private party organized for a single lady unless she can ensure that a trusted male play partner will attend with her, and even then I’d like to be there at the start of the night to ensure he has shown up as planned. Ladies, please email me directly at katsfant@gmail.com to discuss.

Couples, if you want me to be in attendance to prep the room, bring the men up to the hotel room via card access elevator, welcome them, do introductions and stay until play begins, there will be an additional fee of $100-$150 depending on venue location, and the date would need to be based on my availability. If you have over 15 guests I’m willing to offer a discount on my attendance fee.

To express interest in having an option #1 private party organized for you, please join this MAILING LIST and I’ll  reply ASAP.

OPTION #2 – Private Party for a Couple, Single Lady or Single Man Seeking Couples and Single Men (*Possibly Single Ladies) – Up to 19 Guests – You Host

THIS PRIVATE PARTY CAN BE IN A VARIETY OF THEMES: MIX OF COUPLES & SINGLES, MULTIPLE MEN FOR THE LADIES, COUPLES ONLY, COUPLES & LADIES ONLY (SEE SINGLE LADY RULES BELOW), BI PARTY WELCOMING BI MEN &/OR BI COUPLES AND/OR BI SINGLE LADIES (SEE SINGLE LADY RULES BELOW) OR COUGARS & CUBS THEME OF YOUNGER MEN/OLDER WOMEN AND THEIR PARTNERS OF ANY AGE.

You submit the questionnaire along with a saucy or nice photo of yourself which is used to promote the party.  A face photo does NOT need to be shown however most hosts share a face photo with guests they’ve said ‘yes’ to, and it will be mandatory for single men to share their face photo with all guests if they are the host.

I organize the guests based on the type & number of you want however the minimum is 4 guests in addition to the host/s. For example, 2 couples  or 1 couple & 2 single men, minimum. If you only want single men refer to the paragraph above “Private Parties for Couples/Ladies Seeking Single Men”.

Please be advised that I DO NOT organize single ladies as guests unless they are in addition to the minimum of 4 (as outlined above) and even then, I can only try, there is no guarantee.  Again, I do not organize 1 or any number of single ladies for ladies, men or couples.

This private party theme is for couples, single ladies or single men seeking a minimum of 4 guests (as outlined above) & up to 19 guests. For over 19 guests refer to Option #3 below.

I send you photos of applicants and you’re in complete control of who attends by saying ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Depending on the number of guests, if the party is on the higher end, there is no expectation for the host or guests to play together so you may opt to enlist me to do all the vetting (based on your criteria) for groups over 8-10. This will save you countless hours of time.  This private party will have a different refund policy, to be explained when a guest RSVP’s & prior to payment.

You can hold it in the suburb of your choice, in the venue of your choice (Airbnb, hotel room, suite, your home etc.,) and the gathering can go as long as you please plus you can spend the night (avoid a drive home after the fun) and can even opt to welcome any guests you choose to stay the night too.

Please be advised that if you opt to host in your own home and it is for 15 or more guests, I reserve the right to get a tour of the space you will use, in-person or via facetime, prior to the start of the process.

I do not attend this event unless you want me to be in attendance to prep the room, bring guests up via card access elevator, or welcome them at the door, do introductions and stay until play begins.  There will be an additional fee of $100-$150 depending on venue location and your event would have to be on a date I’m available. If you have over 10 guests I’m willing to offer a discount on my attendance fee.

For security purposes, if a single lady is the host, I will need to be in attendance unless she can ensure that a trusted male play partner will attend with her, and even then I’d like to be there at the start of the night to ensure he has shown up as planned. If I personally know some of the attending couples/ladies then this may be waived. Ladies, please email me directly at katsfant@gmail.com to discuss.

To express interest in having an option #2 private party organized for you, please join this MAILING LIST and I’ll  reply ASAP.

OPTION #3 – The Ultimate Private Party for a Couple, Single Lady or Single Man Seeking Couples and Single Men (*Possibly Single Ladies) – With a Guest List of 20 or More – You Host

THE ULTIMATE PRIVATE PARTY CAN BE IN A VARIETY OF THEMES: MIX OF COUPLES & SINGLES, MULTIPLE MEN FOR THE LADIES, COUPLES ONLY, COUPLES & LADIES ONLY (SEE SINGLE LADY RULES BELOW), BI PARTY WELCOMING BI MEN &/OR BI COUPLES AND/OR BI SINGLE LADIES (SEE SINGLE LADY RULES BELOW) OR COUGARS & CUBS THEME OF YOUNGER MEN/OLDER WOMEN AND THEIR PARTNERS OF ANY AGE.

This Private Party theme is for a couple, single lady or single man seeking a minimum of 20 guests (as outlined below) & up to 40.

You can hold it in the suburb of your choice, in the venue of your choice however, due to the higher number of guests, holding it in your own home is highly recommended. The gathering can go as long as you please plus you can spend the night (avoid a drive home after the fun) and can even opt to welcome any guests you choose to stay the night too.

Please be advised that if you opt to host in your own home and it is for 15 or more guests, I reserve the right to get a tour of the space you will use, in-person or via facetime, prior to the start of the process.

You submit the questionnaire but you DO NOT have to submit a photo for party promotion (but can if you like) and I DO NOT send you photos of applicants/attendees. You’re in control of the type of guests that will be accepted however due to the higher number of guests, I personally do all the vetting, based on what you’ve shared in the questionnaire as your dream guest list.

Due to the fact there will be lots of guests to interact with, there is no expectation for the host or guests to play together (as opposed to Option #1) so this private party will have a different refund policy, to be explained when a guest RSVP’s & prior to payment.

I organize the guests based on the type & number you want however the minimum is 20. It can be any mix you like, of couples & singles, however please note that I do not organize events that have a higher number of women than men. Having said that, if you want a gathering of all couples with a few single ladies, we can do that. Please be advised that I DO NOT organize single ladies as guests unless they are in addition to the the majority of guests that may be couples only or couples & single men, and even then, I can only try, there is no guarantee.  The larger the private party the more likely there will be single ladies to attend, based on your guidelines. Again, I do not organize 1 or any number of single ladies for ladies, men or couples. If you want a gathering of under 20 guests or just single men, please refer to Private Party Options #1 & #2 above.

If you like, I am happy to be this event to help out and ensure the party gets off to a good start! There is no additional cost for my services for gatherings of 20 guests or more.

For security purposes, if a single lady is the host, I will need to be in attendance unless she can ensure that a trusted male play partner will attend with her, and even then I’d like to be there at the start of the night to ensure he has shown up as planned. If I personally know some of the attending couples then this may be waived. Ladies, please email me directly at katsfant@gmail.com to discuss.

To express interest in having an option #3 ‘the ultimate’ private party organized for you, please join this MAILING LIST and I’ll  reply ASAP.

SINGLE MEN: To find out when private parties are on offer, please watch the EVENTS PAGE or OPT IN HERE to the weekly newsletter. Do not join the mailing lists for private parties unless you want to host one.

Last night I enjoyed my first private party event ever! Kat did an amazing job organizing it! She vetted the men, sent them to me and my hubby to approve…they were all gentleman, respectful & courteous. The evening started with dancing, yes, 6 guys with just me! Of course, dancing turned sensual and the rest is in for your imagination. All the towels were soaked, everyone had a great time. We would of went longer but we had to be out of the facility by midnight! Kat has now added an extended time option. I was nervous as this was my first private party but the nervousness gave way to excitement!
Thank you, Kat.

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